Resolutions vs Goals

2012, will not go down as my favorite year. I failed in marriage, my Grandmother passed away, dealing with Middle School issues vs a very sensitive child.. Yet I look back and realize that some great things happened. I lost some relationships but gained some new ones that I will treasure for a lifetime. I have an amazing job with wonderful coworkers and I get to watch young children (including my son) grow. I realized how strong I can be when all I want to do is crawl into a ball and cry. I learned how amazing and supportive my family is and I couldn't make it without them. How supportive real friends are and how I do care for all of them. I had some great experiences, (ice fished, repelled for the first time.) And I didn't gain any weight! BONUS!!! I still hate that saying, "I wouldn't change a thing cause it made me who I am today." Nah, I would change quite a few things really. But I can't so what do you do?   

I don't believe in resolutions. I do believe in goals. My goals for 2013 is to be happy. To remain positive and look at even sad situations and find the beauty in it, if possible.  Surround myself by people who will support me and have a positive influence on me. And most of all, DON'T make me sad. So if you fall into the category of "true friend", thank you. You have no idea how wonderful you are. If you have a problem with me, dislike me or are going to stab me in the back, just bow out of my life now please. I don't have the time or energy for that right now. Most of all, please don't hurt me. 2012 had enough hurt for quite a while.

Oh and how AWESOME is that jersey?!?!!?!?